Late August and early September

I see Andrew and I had our fifteen anniversary (as a couple, not as spouses) in August and I think managed not to remark on it to each other at all. Happy times. Not very surprising when that was just a week out from his flu recovery. We’ve always largely ignored that anniversary, although it would make sense to mark it since it’s the only event of any significance in our household that occurs in the second half of the year. Instead, we pack it all into the first half with both children born in January, Andrew in February and … Continue reading Late August and early September

July 2014

I took about a week to get over my jetlag from the USA, but it was really rather mild. I would just get on with my day, only as soon as the sun set, the day would be over. The unpleasantness was mostly that this meant that for about a week, I worked and slept and did nothing else. I met my mother, aunt and sister in Hornsby — where Andrew and I lived for 5 years and where V was born — the Friday afternoon after I got back, which was odd. Of course, most things are exactly the … Continue reading July 2014

Saturday 9 June 2014

1) everything that’s already in the world when you’re born is just normal; 2) anything that gets invented between then and before you turn thirty is incredibly exciting and creative and with any luck you can make a career out of it; 3) anything that gets invented after you’re thirty is against the natural order of things and the beginning of the end of civilisation as we know it until it’s been around for about ten years when it gradually turns out to be alright really. — Douglas Adams I’ve decided the same applies more generally to life experiences. Anything … Continue reading Saturday 9 June 2014

Saturday 24 May 2014

May is a time of reminiscence for me, again. Two years ago, I was in the final days of preparing my PhD thesis. Last year, I was in the thick of first trimester pregnancy symptoms, wanting to sleep 16 hours a day and eat about half a meal total. I have been reminded of it pretty strongly the last few days. On Thursday I needed to nap from 4 until 6 in the afternoon. It’s another hot May, even more so than last year. Two years ago, the leaves had well and truly turned in my street by this time, … Continue reading Saturday 24 May 2014

Tuesday 18 February 2014

I don’t really think of myself as a shopping kind of person but… apparently I should never be left alone in Ikea. We have a real storage issue at this place (typical of old terrace houses, there’s just nowhere to put things) and it’s finally time to stop keeping V’s clothes in a bookshelf and A’s clothes in a pile at the head of the change table. So on Sunday V had a sort of playdate in Småland, and, because we didn’t know if he’d get upset if we couldn’t get to him without ten minute’s notice, Andrew stayed nearby. … Continue reading Tuesday 18 February 2014

Sunday 17 November 2013

I bet you thought you’d never see me write about the present day again! But if I get too far behind, I will have absolutely no documented memories of this pregnancy whatsoever. From last time, I have a bunch of notes — mostly private — that reassure me that while I felt like an immobile mountain at 35 weeks last time too, it didn’t continue unabated for the next nearly seven weeks. We had the October of Doom in Sydney weather-wise. I think it got above 30°C more than seven times? A very special treat for my sister and her … Continue reading Sunday 17 November 2013

Product review updates: Shoeboxed & GoGet

I had some success in 2012 at subscribing to things that made my life a bit easier to organise, so, a couple of updated reviews. Shoeboxed (original review) What: a service where you package up a bundle of papers to be scanned, and they scan them, do some basic data entry (vendor, date, total amount, total GST) and store them on their website for you. Current impressions: it’s still a pretty good fit for our needs: whenever a piece of paper enters our house that we have any belief we may need to access for paperwork purposes, we ship it … Continue reading Product review updates: Shoeboxed & GoGet

Product review: GoGet carsharing

We’ve been non-car owners again for a few weeks and members of GoGet car sharing for a month or so. These are my initial impressions. This is against a background of our car being primarily used for occasional errands, and weekend excursions either locally (to the beach etc) or to regional cities. We also used to use our car for our son’s daily childcare run, but since we moved, his new childcare is in walking distance. I wouldn’t recommend GoGet to anyone who has a daily errand, this review is largely comparing it to having an occasional-use personal car. Good … Continue reading Product review: GoGet carsharing


I just got a call from a childcare centre who has had my son’s name down for nineteen months. I’m not even sure if they were offering him a place, most likely they are just culling their waiting list in preparation for the 2012 enrolment season. Nineteen months long waiting lists, on the very edge of the metropolis. I’m sure there’s plenty of info out there already about the economic inefficiencies generated by private childcare in countries like Australia and the US where supply doesn’t meet demand and there’s little government intervention in the market. One of the most noticeable … Continue reading Childcare